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Introduction
A
well-known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a
$20 bill. In the room of 200, he asked, "Who would
like this $20 bill?" Hands started going up.
He
said, "I am going to give this $20 to one of you but first
let me do this." He proceeded to crumple the dollar bill up.
He then asked, "Who still wants it?" Still the hands
were up in the air.
"Well," he replied, "What if I do this?" And he dropped it
on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with
his shoe. He picked it up, now all crumpled and dirty.
"Now who still wants it?" Still the hands went into
the air.
"My
friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson. No
matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because
it did not decrease in value. It was still worth $20. Many
times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground
into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances
that come our way. We feel as though we are worthless.
But no
matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never
lose your value. This anecdote is but all too relevant
in the Internet marketing
arena.
I have
webmasters telling me about how good their site is, how they
are going to be the best in what they are doing, etc, etc.
Six months down the road when I went to check on their site,
it's gone. What happened?
A lot
of them probably got busy, or got discouraged. For some,
when it was clear that the money is not just going to drop
from the sky, just move on to the next get-rich-quick
scheme.
But I
will bet that friends and family influenced a lot of them.
There will be questions like: "Have you made money on the
net YET?" or "When are you going to stop playing around on
the Internet and get a real job?" or "You are trying to make
money on the ..... Internet??!?!?"
We
have all been there. It is up to us, as Internet
entrepreneurs, to know our field and persevere. The Internet
is a dynamic place, and setbacks and
failures are the norm rather than the exception. Believe in
what you are doing and don't give up.
A
failure is just a simple miscalculation, of being in the
right place at the wrong time, or just a matter of bad luck.
A failure must not diminish your determination and in no way
reflects badly on you. Rather, a failure just takes you one
step closer to success.
That
said, we must also continually learn and upgrade ourselves.
We must have confidence in ourselves but yet be open to new
ideas and suggestions.
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"I find the great thing in this world is not so
much where we stand, as in what direction we are
moving: To reach the port of heaven, we must
sail sometimes with the wind and sometimes
against it, but we must sail, and not drift, nor
lie at anchor."
Oliver Wendell Holmes, Jr.
US Supreme Court Justice |
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